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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2006-08-02 03:34
Subject:Ayuda :(
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This is more a personal one:

Okay I'm bi or something like it...but recently I've been drifting more towards the opposite sex. Is this normal? I mean given these factors:

1) I've always been interested in girls more, but I tend to date/be around guys more

2) Even though this is happening, in my mind I'm still bisexual, but I feel as if its only a phase...and I don't know if I'm ready to deal with getting over a 12 year long phase lol.

3) Referring back to point to the Okay I'm bi or something like it... comment, I don't so much fancy myself gay or straight....or really either of the other...I don't really have a preference in the sense that I don't really prefer ANYONE...omitting factor one and two...should I even bother labeling myself?

It's been bothering me and perplexing me for the longest (like a couple of years) and I don't know what to do or think anymore. I mean its not like I'm desperate to label myself as anything, I just need to know in my head and in my heart where I am. Was it a phase? Am I just looking for something new? Or is bisexually really a transitional sexuallity for some people like so many people think of it as?

Feed back is MOST welcome :)

<-Kev->

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Poster:being_together
Date:2006-07-07 00:29
Subject:We'd appreciate your input!
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Hi, I'm posting here because it is glbtq related and I feel strongly that your input can really make a difference. However, if it is not in alignment with the essence of this community, please feel free to release this post.

I want to introduce a brand-new homo/bi/t friendly community: happy_gay_life

This is a community dedicated to building a positive glbtq image by sharing joyful and constructive experiences of being glbtq.

Ever wonder why there are so few glbtq stories/movies with happy endings? I did.

I figure out that it has to come from us. We've got to count our blessings and share these lovely moments with each other: the special moments that bring smiles to our faces, that make our hearts sing, that tickle us, that move us to tears of joy ... on a daily basis.

Every time you share a line of joy, you're contributing to building a positive glbtq image and creating a better life for yourself.

Come! Join us and have some fun!

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Poster:deliriums_dream
Date:2006-04-16 17:46
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Mood: Slide.

Soooooooooooooooooo There's this guy, who spent alot of time at my house over the summer... well people do the darndest things while not in thier proper state of mind.....

Pretty, pretty Boys doing pretty, pretty hot things... deny if you like, but he still did it...Collapse )

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-11-17 12:45
Subject:Mad as shit...just need to vent...to like everyone lol
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OMG!! I CAN'T BELIEEEEEEEVE THIS SHIT! Ok I'm just a bit bitter and hella irritated. Ok so here's the deal right....there's this guy.....me and guy were decent friends....then we started hanging out more...then me and dude made out (whoot) and ever since that day...dude has been somewhat stand-offish....and quite the asshole....and of course it just got worse and worse...and today I just had it.....so how many ladies are FAMILIAR with thei stroy EHH!!?? I mean c'mon!! I really hate guys anyway...like almost literally. But anywa the "plot line" of this little story is ofcourse not AT ALL that uncommon....doesn't 85% of the time happen like that anyway? But its just that when ya think ya may have found good people...they turn right around, laugh at ya, and piss in your face. It's ridiculous cause I so thought he was a relatively decent...and he's absolutely no different than any other dude. It makes me sick to think that I have a penis lol. I'm not really looking for advice or how to deal with the situation or w/ever...I've been here with EVERYONE it seems lol. I'm just venting about it so w/ever. Thanks for reading for those of you who gave a shit lol....I certainly don't anymore!

<-Kev->

PS...Advice of any sort is of course always welcome lol. I'm just Annoyed with people in general and I mean like EVERYONE...even myself :(

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Poster:peerhelpgroups
Date:2005-10-08 12:00
Subject:overcoming addiction
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Overcoming porn and masturbation addiction - http://pornographyaddiction.blogspot.com

Any tips help.

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-08-09 23:12
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hello :) My name's Kevin and I'm 19 years old, (now) 5'10", and multiracial. Just lookin for some folks to chat with or w/ever. Here's what I look like:



and I also have a myspace:

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=20431108&Mytoken=20050809194818

If you wanna add me then just comment on my latest post in my journal. On myspace, I accept people like Jesus lol.

Laterz!

<-Kev->

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Poster:mikerox08
Date:2005-07-05 10:48
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Mood: bored

hey i'm gay and i live in royal palm beach (which is just a smaller section of west palm beeach). add me if you want just comment lol.

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Poster:apzworld88
Date:2005-06-22 17:50
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Mood:ok I guess

Hey my name is Anthony, I live in West Palm Beach. If anyone wanst to chat sometime my aim is fullofgrace988

I am 17, Spanish, Funny (at least I think so). Hit me up!!

Anthony

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-05-04 03:25
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I think I am like 15 minutes away from having my first threesome...lol OMG I'm FREAKIN OUT!! HOW TO HANDLE THIS!!???

<-Kev->

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-04-27 23:49
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MORE PICS!

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LATERZ!! OOOh and if you care to, then stop by my user page and rate me on hot or not!!

<-Kev->

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-03-23 19:24
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OK guys. Just so you know this is a request for some homo advice lol. Anyway, there's this guy, and his names Vannak. He's prolly one of the most perfect people in the world to me. I like him and he likes me. Problem:

When we first met, he would come down to visit me. Then he met my friends and he liked them right off the back. YAY!!! He loves my friends and they love him...good shit right? Well then it seems that now he comes JUST to see them and I'm just the guy that hangs around with "his friends" (my firends) until its time for bed where we cuddle or w/ever....(cuddle is such a gross word lol). Like RIGHT NOW!! I have been at the comp for 4 hours....and he hasn't asked me but once what I'm doing and I told him that I was writing this and he continued havin a rootin-tootin-mother-fuckin-time with my friend Lina. (sorry...kinda lol). I don't know what to do. Should I say something? I don't want to seem like I'm whining or bitching. Or should I just back off and just leave him alone until he's ready to "give me the time of day" so that I don't think about wanting to be around him but having to wait my turn until he's done with my firends?

UGH!!

PLEASE!!!

~Kev

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-02-17 16:27
Subject:MORE PICS!!
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I just took some more pics and I hope everyone likies!! These are just some of my favorites ;o)

Read more...Collapse )~Kev</b>

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-01-30 16:40
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HEy all!! I'm Kevin and I'm like all excited!! I just got my camera back and I can post pics now :o) This is somewhat my first time posting pictures of myself so I'm kind of nervous too lol but anyway...here goes!!! Enjoy.......I hope lol

some of my favorites:
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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-01-21 10:07
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I haven't posted in here in a while!! ugh....I'm a bit depressed as of late. I have been having shit with being bi and for the THE FIRST TIME IN YEARS I do care.....I'm depressed. I'm never depressed. I'm just fucked! Girls are creeped out by it and give me the "oh Kevin you're such a great friend" line and guys are just like either fuck toy or their paranoid that I'll be checking out some bimbo on the side. Then (I know this is really old) but on top of that...it's unfrotunately true that it's always going to be harder for me to get a date because of my dark skin. I hate feeling this distraut and destitute.

Does anyone else honsetly feel that they could never (or have never thought about) dating or "talking to" a dark skinned guy??? PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME AND BE HONEST

I need to be cheered up....some one help?

reluctantly,

Kevin

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Poster:choclatethunder
Date:2005-01-05 02:53
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alright...I need some advice...

My exboyfrined wants me to come visit him and I want to go and visit him too. The problem is is that he's my ex...and we've gone our seperate ways but we're still like in love with eachother. I really want to see him but I'm afraid that old feelings will be rekindled between us and that it'll just make us all awkward around eachother later on. Not to mention the distance between us too. I really wanna go see him though.

SHOULD I GO TO SEE HIM OR NOT???

Kev,

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Poster:fatgothgirl
Date:2005-01-02 23:35
Subject:Hair cuts
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You guys are awesome! Could I get a hair cut or a cool gay friend here?

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Poster:adoredhatred
Date:2004-10-31 16:04
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Hi.

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Poster:masterneo
Date:2004-08-23 12:38
Subject:Hey there!
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New to the community. So what do Davieboys do? Any outings...parties?

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Poster:smallplanetpics
Date:2004-07-26 13:13
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